How do you stand out of the crowd?

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Yesterday I had to search for some of my friends and for some I had the hardest time to find them and add them to a list I developed. What was the issue?

1) Your Names
If your name is Roger Brown, you may be Roger Brown on one network R Brown on another, RBrown jun and so forth. And thousands of Roger Browns have that exact same issue. But the issue is not so much about your user name but your real name. Since we all learned that the user name maybe different on each network, people search for you by your real name.
What Can You Do?
Bite the bullet and start all over. Give yourself a new name – and share it across all networks. Call yourself "Roger Brown (Roggy)" or "Roger Brown (sailer)" or something else creative and unique. Make it part of your name in your business and personal life. Tell your friends what you did and why you did it. Names were created several thousand years ago to call people with a unique word. We simply have to advance to stay unique even if our parents didn't think about social media back then.
 

2) Your Photo
I had the hardest time with some people as they have a different photo wherever I looked. You may remember my other post where I described in great detail the importance using the same photo all over "Our brain recognizes an image in 1 millisecond" but we need a full second to read and associate it.
What can you do?
Take one photo you like most and just go through your entire list of social sites and update them
 

3) Name versus business
Some of my friends just started a new business and "donated" their twitter account by changing it to their new business. That is a huge mistake in my opinion. Not only because people want to do business with people not logos, but the confusion is so big that both suffer. Pointing to a new business is so much smarter as you keep your identity and don't mix it up.
What can you do?
Make sure your personal account is your personal account as long as you live – never turn it into something else.
Create a business account for the business you are currently promoting. Promote it from your personal account.
 

4) Profile Name
Twitter became the master record for many tools. It is extremely important to differentiate between twitter name and real name. Twitter offers both and you need to take advantage if it. If I search for Viola Myers I hope to find her on Twitter, especially because she is such an engaged networker. But if she would use a different name on Twitter, I have no chance what so ever to find her. The same is on LinkedIn or XeeMe. If you use your LinkedIn network number you will need to update it frequently which just takes away from the name and its search results.
What can you do?
Make a tour through all your networks and update your name 'First name' 'Last name' nothing else. Keep it that way. If you have additional business accounts you most likely already have that. I guess if your company is called "Consulting Services Inc." you probably won't call the account "Little Butterfly" ;)

 

5) Username / handle

We all would like to have the same user name all over the web. But that is often no longer possible. Even the most advanced users who always find the latest networks may just find their name is already taken. Live with it. We live in a world of clicks. Just make sure your profile or XeeMe is clickable wherever you are. If you have a rather prominent short name you may use that on XeeMe as well. Most power user use their twitter handle on XeeMe which makes a lot of sense.
What cam you do?
Make sure your XeeMe name is short – very short. Typically use your Twitter handle or just your first and lastname in one word.

6) Bio
Most social networks have a field to add your bio. The more consistent you are the better it is and it is much easier to just copy one from the other. Add your XeeMe URL here to make sure that people can find you on ALL OTHER networks. This is actually critical when it comes to identity management. Make sure people know who YOU are on other networks too.
What can you do?
Again, go through all your networks and update your bio, Take the Twitter version which is 160 character max. and it will work everywhere. Most will turn your XeeMe link automatically into a clickable link if you start with http://

 

All the above should help you have a clearly unique, identifiable and attractive presence in the social web. You stand out if you get found quickly, and be clearly identified as YOU. Otherwise somebody may drop the results like a hot potato. In some cases I actually couldn't find some of my friends even after trying hard.

Axel

http://xeeme.com/AxelS

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  1. Steve CassadySteve Cassady01-04-2012

    Nice post with great hints.  Luckily, I was on early enough to have the same handle across all social platforms (except YouTube).  It does make finding people easier and helps to establish the personal brand.

    • AxelSAxelS01-27-2012

      Lucky you :) I ended up with AxelS on most but some needed to be my full name. Oh well.
      Http://XeeMe.com/AxelS

  2. Billy StewartBilly Stewart01-05-2012

    Some really great insights Axel. Thanks so much.
    My actual name is William Stewart but most people call me Billy, so I completely see your point with the names as mine is either Billy or William depending on the site. Fortunatley the picture being the same on all of them helps people identify its me reasonably quick.   
    I also add my name(s) and handles etc.. when tagging pictures, blogs, posts, slide presentations and so forth, this (I hope) makes it easier for people to find me online, and my individual contributions. I think your point on a unique handle would be a great way of really cutting out people that share your name and point you out uniquely.
    http://xeeme.com/WilliamStewart

    • AxelSAxelS01-27-2012

      Yes, it is an interesting battle. There was a funny photo the other day: The young mother said:”I think I call here Sarah” the priest said: “Sorry, Sarah is taken but how about Sarah778899…”
      http://XeeMe.com/AxelS

  3. Wayne UleryWayne Ulery01-06-2012

    Great Post!
    I'm now putting together a 160 character bio and running through all my social sites, I think for the most part I've kept my picture the same.  In some cases I've added a few logos to my picture, but I think that should be ok.
    This is a very helpful article and I wish I would have realized all this when I was starting out.  Would save someone a lot of time.

    • AxelSAxelS01-27-2012

      Ha ha ha – I think we all went through the same pain. Including myself until I really needed to think through this more. :) Thanks for the feedback Wayne. http://XeeMe.com/AxelS

  4. Daniela RusowskyDaniela Rusowsky01-09-2012

    Thank you for the great tips! Fortunately I am the one and only Daniela Rusowsky (so far), but I will start updating my diverse profile pictures as we speak…
    Daniela 

  5. Peter WrightPeter Wright01-13-2012

    All good and valid points Axel.
    Two more to add, not only does an inconsistent use of your real name make it difficult for people to find you, but it leads to the possibility of people confusing you with someone with a similar or the same name, getting into some sort of trouble.
    I have a very common name, I have a Google alert on my name and some of the items that come up are quite frightening. Criminals being sentenced for some serious offences and bad divorce cases for example.
    Luckily, I chose a unique user name when I first started on twitter in 2008 and then went on to use this on every new platform I joined.
    Last point, a mistake I made was to use different email addresses for some of the first social media sites I joined. Now I have learned and use the same one for all sites but I still get invitations to join Facebook sent to my other email addresses which I use for different types of correspondence. So consistency here is important too.

  6. BarendBarend01-26-2012

    Hi Axel,

    Thanks for the article i am busy updating all my profiles to the "twitter bio" and only using my http://xeeme.com/barend in future on all my emails and thats my new way on branding my company.

    Take Care
    Barend

  7. Judy CarollJudy Caroll02-03-2012

     
    Hi Axel, 
    I love all the points you make here.  The idea of consistency really gets lost in the shuffle, especially among bloggers and online marketers these days.  If we want to get noticed online, and make other people recognize us, we need to choose a name (one that is easy to remember) and stick to it.  This means, we should be that person around those important people, and we can be that way with everybody.
    Thanks for sharing, 
    Judy 

  8. DianeDiane02-14-2012

    Hi Axel,
    Thankyou for all the great tips I am quite a newbee to social networking so very helpful.
     
    Best Wishes
     
    Diane

  9. Stan SmithStan Smith02-19-2012

    With my name being the same as a former world champion tennis player, a Converse shoe line (their most successful shoe line no less) and the main character in American Dad the whole name thing has always been an issue for me.  
    I also use three user names.  One is simply because it is a leftover from my first online business that I closed when people chose to feed their children instead of buying autographed baseballs & jerseys.  The second one is the one I use the most often, but my own business partner has swiped it on more than one occasion as a joke.  She's a great partner, but her sense of humor is a bit out there sometimes! The third one probably fits me the best and I have been using it for any emerging sites I've joined over the past six months or so.
    The picture is probably the one I need to really go back and take a much closer look at making a few adjustments.
    Anyway, thank you for giving me something to think about!

  10. TViliciousTVilicious04-22-2012

    Really helpfull , thanks

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